FUND-RAISING PARTIES FILL THE CALENDAR.(Living Today)(Calendar)

Byline: Frances Ingraham

CHARITABLE EVENING: The Ladies of Charity will sponsor its annual fund-raiser on Saturday

at Marian Hall, 700 New Scotland Ave., Albany, from 6 to 9 p.m.

The theme is New Year's Resolutions. Tickets are $25 per person from 482- 0686.

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BENEFIT FOR THE HOMELESS: The TriStar Network will sponsor a benefit performance of "They're Playing Our Song" at the Cohoes Music Hall on Wednesday

for the Fund for the Homeless.

The 8 p.m. performance will be preceded at 6:30 p.m. by a cocktail party with coffee and desserts at intermission. Tickets are $50 per person from 877-5250 by today.

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ANNUAL EVENT: The second annual reception for the benefit of the …